Worn at the hips
Lesbian strapon sex begins with a piece of equipment: a harness that fits like a pair of briefs and holds a dildo upright over the pubic bone. Wearing it gives one woman a cock she can fuck with, driven by her hips and thighs, while her partner lies back for it, kneels on all fours or rides it from above.
How the harness holds the toy
Harnesses for lesbian strapon play come in leather, nylon webbing or stretch fabric cut like underwear. A jock style runs two straps under the cheeks and leaves the ass bare; a thong style runs a single strap between them. The dildo goes through an O-ring and is held there by its flared base, so ring and toy have to match in size. Some harnesses carry a small pocket for a bullet vibrator that presses on the wearer's clit with each thrust, and a strapless model drops the straps altogether, with a bulb at one end that the wearer keeps inside herself. Extended straps make the same gear fit plus-size lesbians, and fit matters more than looks, since a loose harness lets the toy wobble.
Choosing what goes in the ring
The toy is interchangeable. A curved one is aimed at the front wall of her pussy, a thick realistic one stretches more, and a slimmer one with a tapered tip suits strap-on anal. Unclipped from the ring, the same silicone toy is back to dildo play by hand. Doggy style gives the deepest reach, and riding lets the woman on top decide the depth herself. Water-based lube goes on the toy before anything else, because silicone lube breaks down silicone toys.
